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"A family located in north London seeks an exceptional and skilled instructor to assist their most junior child on his initial journey to becoming an English gentleman."

When reading this advertisement, you might readily skip the term "initial stages" as mere an expression.

However, it may be the most important element of this unique position posting, as it seeks to find a tutor for a one-year-old.

Many of applications have already been received since the anonymous family advertised their search for the £180,000 per year tutor, who has to be "an exceptional individual".

In recent few weeks, the advert has received attention throughout the media, with many questioning why?

Progressive Approach

The CEO, chief executive of a global tutoring firm, which is helping the family in their hunt, stated that notwithstanding early scepticism, he considered the concept "forward-looking", and "progressive".

When he consulted the family, he mentioned they appreciated the unusual aspect of their request, and how immature their son is.

Nevertheless, they clarified that they "were unwilling to delay any longer" to engage a tutor, as they had waited until their elder sibling was five, and by that point "cultural conditioning had already taken hold".

But what does the family refer to by "cultural bias"?

It's "all-encompassing", Adam replied. "How you eat, the way you speak".

He said the elder child had absorbed "very nuanced, body language" from the family, and had assumed their cultural norms. The family explained to him they hoped to prevent the same situation to happen again with their infant.

The intention: To bring in a British tutor, who needs to speak with RP, to shape the baby right from the beginning.

Subtle Influence

"A lot of the education at the outset here is kind of absorbed naturally," said the CEO.

It's via this subtle influence that the family are expecting the child will acquire the English characteristics they want to impart.

Adam said the tutor needed to be an individual who attended "prestigious academies – the same kinds of schools as the family aspire to send their son to".

"The instructor just has to be the right kind of person, they'll be carrying out things they may not realize they're doing, just naturally," he added.

Expense Not a Factor

The family told the expert the selected educator should preferably also have familiarity of or passion in riding, winter sports, the arts and music so as to shape the child in a diverse set of passions.

Additionally though, he stated the family hoped the tutor to enrol the child on a selection of lessons so the child would be "horseback riding and learning an instrument by the time they are about three years old".

In the family's perspective, assisting their son develop into a "UK sophisticate" will result in accomplishment and open doors.

"Considering the advantages and disadvantages of that, because it's certainly a class statement," he comments.

However, in spite of all this guidance in "Britishness", could the child pick up so-called cultural bias from the globally influenced family he resides with regardless?

"Absolutely", replied he. "They know this may not work, but they've simply adopted the attitude of, 'why not attempt it and we should start as soon as we can', because the cost of it is not relevant," he explained.

Idealistic and Unrealistic

There are some in the tutoring industry who share similar concerns.

An education leader, chief executive of a tutoring service, who supplies personal educators, wrote that "the development of embracing two identities, or actually, discovering oneself, is something that must be grown into, not designed."

He explained that he had emigrated from China to the United Kingdom at the age of childhood, and had been educated knowing and practicing both cultures. He continued to learn at the University of Cambridge.

"The concept that a single person can serve as a living vessel of UK identity, an individual who can in some way impart the qualities of a English gentleman to a infant child, appears idealistic and unfeasible," he stated.

"From my perspective, employing a quintessentially UK tutor from early childhood will not automatically produce the result they want.

"I wasn't provided with such a tutor, and however I have been fortunate enough to experience several of the experiences they hope for their son."

He continued: "The reality is, self-identity can not be dictated from the outside influences; it must be chosen, and it must originate internally."

Purchasing UK Culture

Of course, UK identity is something Adam thinks can be instructed – and commercialized.

"I think the fact that the international society holds us in this respect is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating